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独自旅行的意外收获
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作者原本是一名外向型旅行者,但首次独自旅行却带来了意想不到的惊喜。文章详细阐述了独自旅行的八大好处,包括行程安排的灵活性、预算控制的自主性、享受独享的酒店空间、更容易获得额外优待、克服导航障碍提升独立性、结识新朋友拓展视野,以及享受不被打扰的阅读时光。这些体验改变了作者对独自旅行的看法,并让她认识到自己的潜能。

✈️ **行程安排的绝对自主权**:独自旅行意味着完全掌控自己的时间表,可以随心所欲地在喜欢的景点停留,无需迁就他人,也能根据心情随时调整计划,例如临时决定品尝当地海鲜或多走一段路欣赏风景,一切决定只需自己说了算。

💰 **预算控制的精细化**:灵活的行程安排也带来了对预算的更佳掌控。作者不再需要担心与他人消费习惯对齐,可以自由选择在何处“奢侈”消费,例如一顿丰盛的晚餐,或通过步行省钱,也能根据个人兴趣跳过不感兴趣的景点,实现更具个人价值和可持续性的旅行消费。

🏨 **独享的酒店空间体验**:即使不认为需要太多空间,作者也发现独自拥有一间酒店房间带来了意想不到的舒适和奢侈感。可以自由保持房间整洁,按自己喜好起床,最重要的是无需与他人轮流争抢浴室,享受了难得的私人空间。

🌟 **更容易获得额外优待**:独自一人时,作者发现更容易被安排到座位或获得意想不到的好处。例如,在热门餐厅无需预订就能被安排入座,或在旅途中得到工作人员的额外帮助,这些“隐藏福利”让她更 appreciated 独自旅行的便利性。

🗺️ **独立导航能力提升**:对于不擅长导航的作者来说,独自旅行迫使她承担起指引方向的责任。她意外地发现自己能够顺利找到车站、看懂交通指示牌并利用公共交通,虽然会向工作人员寻求帮助,但独立完成导航任务带来了极大的成就感和独立性。

🤝 **结识新朋友,拓展视野**:原以为会感到孤单,但独自旅行反而为与新朋友交流打开了大门。作者与餐厅顾客、服务人员以及当地人进行了深入的交流,获得了更多元化的视角,丰富了旅行体验,这种开放性是结伴旅行中较难获得的。

📚 **享受不被打扰的阅读时光**:对于热爱阅读的作者而言,独自旅行提供了宝贵的、不受干扰的阅读时间。无论是坐在餐厅、火车上还是排队时,她都能随时拿出Kindle沉浸在书本中,这不仅是一种放松,也帮助她避免了在公共场合独自一人的尴尬感。

I was skeptical I'd enjoy solo travel, but I quickly found there were some perks to traveling alone.

"How many?" the host asked as I walked into the restaurant. I swallowed and responded, "Just one."

It felt strange to say, and even weirder to walk into the bustling restaurant by myself, heading to a small table in the corner.

As an extrovert, I've never preferred doing things solo.

So when I planned my first real trip alone, I was nervous. Sightseeing with no one to talk to, sitting by myself at dinner, and going back to an empty hotel room all seemed … awkward.

Postgrad life has a funny way of forcing your hand, though. Everyone's schedules are different now, and I didn't want to wait around for someone else to be free to scratch my travel itch.

So when I had the chance to go on a solo trip to Boston and no one was available to tag along, I took it as a sign. I went alone — and to my surprise, there were perks I never expected.

Here are eight things I loved about solo travel.

Booking transportation was simpler, with less planning and logistics involved.

One of the nice parts of planning the trip was that I didn't have to coordinate transportation with anyone else.

No group texts about which airline to fly, what days work best for everyone, or trying to coordinate train and flight schedules so we can all arrive at the same time.

With just me, that extra layer of logistics disappeared, and I got to travel based on my preferences.

So, I traveled by Amtrak for the first time. I picked a 6 a.m. departure because I'm an early bird when it comes to travel, and I upgraded my seat for extra comfort.

I appreciated the flexible schedule that solo travel provided me.

One of the biggest advantages of traveling solo was having complete control over my day-to-day schedule.

I could spend as much time as I wanted at any spot without feeling rushed, and change my schedule spontaneously depending on my mood.

Whether I was craving a seafood restaurant, needed a quick nap back at the hotel, or wanted to walk an extra mile to see the fall foliage on the Charles River Esplanade, I didn't have to ask if anyone else was down — I just did it.

Similarly, it was easier to allocate and control my budget.

My flexible schedule also allowed me to have control over my budget. I feel pressured to match someone else's spending habits or compromise on what I wanted to splurge on.

Instead, I was free to prioritize what matters to me, whether that was splurging on a nice dinner, saving money by walking instead of taking a rideshare, or skipping attractions that didn't interest me.

This level of autonomy not only helped me stick to a budget, but it also allowed me to spend in ways that reflected my own values and interests.

I found it not only to be a more intentional way to travel, but also a more financially sustainable one.

I unexpectedly loved having the hotel space all to myself.

I never considered myself someone who needed a lot of room on a trip, but it felt nice —and even luxurious —to have a hotel room all to myself.

I was able to keep the room tidy, sleep until the time I preferred, and the biggest advantage is I never had to fight for the bathroom.

I'm used to traveling with friends, where we're coordinating who showers first, who gets the mirror for makeup next, and who's using the blow dryer.

Although it's always fun getting ready together, it was refreshing to have the space all to myself. I relished it.

I noticed I was more likely to receive some perks when I was on my own.

I found that being alone often made it easier to get into crowded places or enjoy unexpected perks.

For example, one night I walked into a packed restaurant without a reservation. There were families and groups waiting to be seated outside, but when the host saw I was by myself, I was let in right away without waiting.

From my experience, even if a restaurant is packed, there's a good chance they have a single bar seat to spare.

Another instance of this was on my Amtrak ride home, when a staff member noticed I looked a bit lost.

I had asked him where to go, and instead of explaining, he kindly introduced me to a family that was boarding early to lead me to where I needed to go. Not only did I avoid missing the train, but I also got to board ahead of the crowd.

When you're alone, people can often squeeze you in, or you're more likely to fly under the radar. It was an unexpected perk I came to really appreciate.

Traveling solo forced me to do things I was uncomfortable with, like taking control of navigation.

As someone notoriously bad with directions, I usually rely on others to take the lead when it comes to navigating, whether it's finding stations, following signs, or figuring out public transit.

Traveling solo forced me to take charge, and to my surprise, I wasn't half bad.

I didn't get lost walking around Boston, I found the right platforms for my Amtrak rides, and I even figured out public transportation in Salem.

Sure, I asked for help from workers and attendants along the way — but I did it.

It was incredibly rewarding and gave me a sense of independence. It pushed me out of the comfortable habit of following someone else's lead, and reminded me that I'm more capable than I give myself credit for.

I had the opportunity to meet new and interesting people.

I thought I would go crazy not having anyone to talk to on my trip. However, I quickly realized that traveling solo just opens the door to talking to new people.

It may be because I seemed more approachable on my own, or I was initiating more conversations because I didn't have a group to rely on, but either way, I spoke to plenty of people while I was out and about. 

I chatted with fellow patrons in restaurants, my servers and I shared stories of where we were from, and I had engaging conversations with locals I never would've had if I had been traveling with company.

Walking down the streets of Salem, a woman with a typewriter caught my eye, and I began talking to her about my first solo trip. She crafted an adorable poem for me, and we shared a warm interaction.

As an extrovert, I not only love meeting new people, but others' perspectives on the area I was visiting also made my trip more meaningful. 

I appreciated all of the uninterrupted reading time I had.

This one might be niche to me and other book lovers, but I had plenty of downtime to read as much as I wanted.

Reading on a trip always sounds relaxing in theory, but it's not always practical unless I'm traveling with people who also enjoy books.

During this trip, I had the freedom to whip out my Kindle any time I had a spare moment. I read at restaurants, on trains, or while waiting in lines.

As someone with a long TBR (to be read) list, I appreciated having that uninterrupted reading time.

It also gave me something to do that wasn't just scrolling on my phone, and it helped me avoid feeling awkward being alone in public spaces.

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