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年长父母的亚洲邮轮之旅:规划与体验的挑战与收获
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作者分享了一次与年长父母及妹妹一同进行的12晚亚洲邮轮之旅的经历。尽管邮轮提供了便利和放松的旅行方式,但行程紧凑、文化体验丰富,以及需要承担更多行程规划和解决突发问题的责任,使得这次旅行比预期的更为疲惫。作者详细描述了在签证办理、行程研究、岸上游览选择、应对父母健康状况以及处理突发状况(如东京行程取消)等方面的经历,展现了作为子女在旅行中角色转变的挑战与温情。尽管旅途充满挑战,作者仍珍视与父母共度的时光,并肯定了邮轮旅行在多代同堂旅行中的优势。

🚢 **精心规划与责任承担**: 随着父母年长,作者承担了更多旅行前的规划和行程中的后勤保障工作,包括研究目的地、办理签证、预订行程等,以确保父母的旅途更轻松。这种角色转变虽然带来精神上的疲惫,但也体现了子女对父母的关爱。

🚦 **行程安排与父母适应性**: 尽管邮轮提供了便利,但行程紧凑且港口密集,全天候的岸上游览,加上当地炎热的气候和空气质量,对年长父母的体力和健康提出了挑战。作者根据父母的状况调整了部分行程,并庆幸有海上日可以让他们休息恢复。

🏥 **邮轮便利性与突发状况应对**: 邮轮的便利性在父母年长后尤为凸显,尤其是在父亲身体不适需要医疗救助时,船上的医疗设施和英语沟通服务提供了及时有效的帮助。同时,作者也展现了在面对行程取消等突发状况时,主动解决问题的能力,如带领家人自行探索东京。

💖 **家庭时光与旅行意义**: 尽管旅途充满挑战,作者依然珍视与父母一同旅行的宝贵时光,并享受与他们共度的欢乐时光,如打牌和跳舞。这次旅行也提醒了作者,多代同行的旅行中,邮轮提供了一种舒适且适合所有人的选择,加深了家庭成员之间的情感联系。

As my parents get older, I find myself planning more of the family trips and handling logistics and issues, which can be mentally draining.

This spring, I embarked on a 12-night Royal Caribbean cruise from Singapore to Tokyo with my 64-year-old parents and sister.

It was a bucket-list trip for our family, but I wasn't prepared for just how tiring the cruise would be.

Our port-intensive itinerary included stops in Vietnam, Hong Kong, Taiwan, South Korea, and Japan — and every day ashore was packed with culturally rich experiences.

When visiting less familiar countries, I make it a priority to research and plan ahead so our family is well-prepared. As my parents get older, I also find myself taking on more responsibility to ensure their journey is less stressful.

From sorting through visa requirements to planning full-day excursions, this cruise wasn't exactly relaxing.

Despite the exhaustion, I don't regret spending two weeks cruising with my parents — and I've already booked more trips with them.

I did a lot of the planning and research so I could help my family.

My parents are in their mid-60s, and they're both still relatively active and healthy. Even still, I've learned that a little bit of extra preparation can go a long way to make our cruise more enjoyable.

For example, I applied for my Vietnam visa weeks before my parents so I could walk them through the process. In addition, I researched each port on our itinerary, reading countless reviews to find the best experiences for each destination.

It was a lot of work on my end, but I feel it paid off for our family.

Booking cruise excursions helped make the trip less stressful.

In the end, we decided to book all of our excursions through the cruise line to give my parents peace of mind.

With the cruise line handling all the logistics, all we had to do was show up and enjoy the tour.

My mom can become easily flustered in unfamiliar or stressful situations, so having the structure of group tours helped her feel more at ease.

Excursions also removed the pressure of navigating unfamiliar cities on our own, which might've been challenging — especially with my parents' pace and comfort in mind.

I hadn't fully considered how lengthy tours and local weather could impact my parents.
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Though cruising is often associated with carefree days relaxing on the beach, this itinerary was the complete opposite.

From wandering the bustling markets in Vietnam to riding a sampan across the scenic bay in Hong Kong, our full-day tours were fast-paced.

On top of tiring days, I also hadn't fully considered how my parents would cope with the weather.

In particular, the stifling heat and poor air quality made things more challenging for my dad. Between his asthma and a lingering cold that developed into a bad cough, he needed to slow down halfway through our trip.

In Taiwan, my parents opted for a shorter half-day excursion after deciding the full-day option would be too demanding for my dad.

This gave him time to rest and take it easy while my sister and I spent hours touring Taipei. We were especially thankful for the sea days that followed, which allowed my dad to catch up on sleep and recover from his cold.

Throughout the trip, the parent-child role reversal surprised me.

As my parents get older, I find myself taking on more responsibility when we travel, which can be mentally tiring. It's surprising how quickly you go from being the kid to managing logistics and making decisions for the family.

Still, I was happy to step up when things didn't go as planned during our trip to make sure my parents were taken care of.

For example, when the cruise line unexpectedly canceled our excursion in Tokyo, I took the lead in figuring out the local train system and guiding us into the city.

The language barrier and ticketing process made it more challenging than I anticipated. At one point, we boarded the wrong train and miscalculated how much money to load onto our passes.

Between the vastly different language and crowded train stations, my parents admitted they would've been overwhelmed trying to navigate Tokyo on their own.

We eventually made it into the city, and the stress was worth it so they could experience the famous Shibuya Crossing. My parents loved it so much, they crossed the square nearly 10 times.

Still, a cruise was the best choice for traveling with my parents.
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Cruising has always been our family's favorite way to travel, and this is especially true as my parents have gotten older.

On this cruise, my parents could visit multiple countries in Asia without the stress of constant travel.

Instead of spending hours in the airport or shuffling between hotels, we ended each day on board with happy hour, a relaxing dinner, and Broadway-style entertainment.

I was especially grateful to be on a ship when my dad needed medical help.
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The convenience of being on a cruise became even more important when my dad's cold worsened mid-trip.

Having access to the onboard medical facility was a huge relief, as he was able to receive medication, X-rays, and a diagnosis without leaving the ship.

I wasn't emotionally prepared for my dad's health scare, but I was thankful for easy access to medical care and English-speaking providers.

All in all, I love traveling with my family — even if it's stressful sometimes.
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Someone told my parents during our cruise, "It's so nice your adult children still want to travel with you," and it reminded me how special our bond is.

Not everyone in their 30s wants to sail with their parents for two weeks, but even as an adult, I genuinely enjoy their company.

My mom and dad both like to have fun, whether playing a competitive game of cards after dinner or dancing at the late-night headphone disco. In fact, most evenings they stayed up later than I did.

This trip reminded me why cruising works well for multigenerational travel. You can't beat the convenience and comfort of traveling by cruise ship, and there's something for everyone to enjoy on board.

And since I live across the country from my family, I always appreciate the opportunity for quality time together.

Though our trip felt a bit too fast-paced and I handled much of the planning, I wouldn't hesitate to do it again. I love to travel, but doing so with my parents made the whole experience more memorable.

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