Derek Sivers blog 09月29日
一次性体验人生:拥抱新奇与变化
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文章倡导一种“一次性”体验人生的生活方式,鼓励人们最大化地利用感官,去探索世界、品尝美食、结识新友,并避免重复。作者建议通过系统性地追随“必游之地”、“影史佳作”等指南,并避免固守一地、拥有固定居所,甚至定期更换衣物风格,来确保每一种体验都是崭新且独特的。这种生活方式旨在丰富人生阅历,促进身心成长,并最终帮助人们避免遗憾。在人生后期,作者也提出了一种颠覆性的“重复”体验——深入一段关系、建立家庭,以此来完成人生中最后一项“未曾体验”的经历。

✨ 拥抱“一次性”体验:文章的核心在于鼓励人们将人生中的每一次经历都视为独一无二的,无论是品尝美食、游览景点还是结识新友,都应避免重复,从而最大化地丰富人生阅历。

🗺️ 系统化探索世界:作者建议遵循“必游之地”、“影史佳作”等指南,并采取不固定居所、不重复路线等策略,以确保能够系统性地、不遗漏地体验尽可能多的事物。

🔄 强制性改变与成长:通过定期更换衣物风格、尝试不同地域的饮食等方式,文章强调了通过外部环境的不断变化来促进大脑的活跃和身体的健康,从而实现持续的个人成长。

💡 接受并学习所有情绪:文章鼓励人们不仅要追求快乐,也要勇敢地去体验和理解痛苦、愤怒、悲伤等负面情绪,将其视为人生的一部分,并从中学习。

🚀 最终的“颠覆”与圆满:在经历了数十年的“一次性”体验后,文章提出了一种反向的、深入的体验——建立长久的关系、组建家庭,以此来完成人生中可能存在的最后一项未曾尝试的经历,实现人生的完整性。

See it all.
Touch it all.
Hear it all.
Taste it all.
Do it all.
Appreciate this wonderful physical world.

If you knew you’d go blind tomorrow, how intensely would you look at the world today?
If you knew you’d go deaf tomorrow, how intensely would you listen?
Fill your senses as if this was your last day on Earth.
One day that will be true.

Maximize your inputs.
See all the places.
Eat all the food.
Hear all the music.
Meet all the people.
Kiss all the beauties.
Be insatiable.

Life is short.
How to experience it all?
Here’s the key:
Here’s your mission:
Nothing twice.
Never eat the same food twice.
Never go to the same place twice.
Never hear the same thing twice.
Everything only once.

Be systematic.
Follow guides.
“Top Places You Must Visit”
“Greatest Movies of All Time”
“Best Restaurants in Town”
Go through them all.
That’s the optimized way to experience the most, without repetition.

Always forward.
Never back.
Push yourself.
Always be a stranger in a strange land.
But don’t rush.
Savor every aspect of everything you take in.
Notice the nuances.

Find places that bombard your senses.
India.
Burning Man.
Festivals.
Museums.
Celebrations.
Funerals.

Skydive.
Scuba dive.
Run with bulls.
Swim with sharks.
Float in space.

How to pay for this wonderful life?
Only two choices.

The bad choice is a travel writer.
Looks glamorous and easy, so everyone tries it.
May be possible, but every rich kid does it for free.

The smart choice is sales.
It will always be valuable.
Learn to sell, and you can go anywhere.
You’ll be paid well at any age.
Always in high demand.
Get a job on the road.
Always talking to strangers.
That’s what you need.

Simple decisions help avoid repetition.
Don’t have a home.
Never sleep in the same place twice.
No kitchen.
No cooking.
Every meal somewhere new.
Never go down a road you recognize.

Simple systems help force change.
Every month, get rid of your existing clothes.
Get new clothes in a new style.
Do this while traveling, so one month your clothes are from Morocco, next month from Italy, next month from Japan.

This is good for you.
The variation in diet is good for your health.
The new situations are great for your brain.

Never have the same thought twice.
Keep nothing on your mind.
Just take in what’s around you now.
Have no expectation of how something should be, or you won’t see how it really is.

How amazing that everything you’re doing is both the first and last time.
The thrill of the first.
The sentimentality of the last.

There will be things you’ll love so much you’ll want to stay or do them again.
But no.
Remember your mission.

Experience pain, anger, sorrow, and more.
Don’t judge them as bad.
Notice how they really feel.

Practice seduction.
Be with a different person every night.
Every lover is different.
Don’t allow relationships.
Remember: no repetition.

But after decades of this, you’ll need something radically new.
Stay in one place.
Be with one person.
Buy a home.
Raise a baby.
It’s terrifying, but if you don’t, it will be the one experience you never had.

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