Fortune | FORTUNE 09月26日 22:48
AI赋能约会软件,改变用户连接方式
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随着用户在约会软件上花费大量时间进行滑动匹配,Meta推出了AI驱动的约会助手,旨在通过可定制的搜索功能,帮助用户超越传统匹配方式,找到更契合的伴侣。新功能允许用户输入更具体的偏好,如“寻找喜欢现场音乐、猫和博物馆的布鲁克林女孩”。此举也反映了行业趋势,竞争对手如Hinge、Tinder和Bumble也在积极部署AI工具,以期减少“滑动疲劳”,使AI驱动的搜索成为主流。尽管Meta的AI功能免费,但部分专家对其效果持保留态度,认为可能无法吸引对真实连接更看重的年轻用户,但也有人认为这是约会软件向更个性化、用户需求导向转变的重要一步。

🤖 **AI驱动的定制化搜索:** Meta推出的AI约会助手允许用户输入比身高或教育程度更具体的偏好,如“寻找喜欢现场音乐、猫和博物馆的布鲁克林女孩”,从而帮助用户超越传统的滑动匹配模式,更精准地寻找潜在伴侣,有效缓解“滑动疲劳”。

🚀 **行业AI竞赛加速:** Meta的AI功能发布正值竞争对手积极部署自身AI工具之际。Hinge预计“海量滑动”将在未来几年内过时,而Tinder、Bumble等平台也已推出AI照片选择器、回复优化器、AI冰球手等功能,预示着AI在约会软件领域的广泛应用和竞争加剧。

🤔 **对AI约会效果的争议:** 尽管AI功能被视为提升用户体验的创新,但部分专家担忧其真实性问题。有观点认为,过于依赖AI润色的个人资料可能疏远寻求真实连接的年轻用户,反而可能适得其反。但也有专家认为,这是约会软件从基于人口统计学筛选转向更细致化、个性化偏好匹配的积极转变。

💡 **AI能否真正解决“滑动疲劳”:** 有观点提出,真正的“滑动疲劳”并非来自物理滑动本身,而是源于无休止的选项浏览而缺乏有意义的后续行动。因此,用户可能更需要促进关系转化为现实的工具,例如本地活动、线下聚会或鼓励将对话转至线下的温和提示,而非仅仅依赖AI。

📈 **平台增长潜力与用户接受度:** Meta希望借此新功能吸引年轻用户群体,该群体在匹配数量上呈现增长。然而,年轻一代对AI功能在约会软件中的接受程度仍是未知数,他们可能更看重真实性和效率,而非AI带来的便利性。

The average dating app user spends more than 50 minutes a day just swiping, according to a recent Forbes Health Survey. But a customizable search function may help alleviate swipe fatigue by giving online daters new ways to connect beyond swiping through potential matches, Facebook Dating product manager Neha Kumar told Fortune. Meta also announced this week another feature that automatically matches a user with a surprise match based on a personalized algorithm.

Meta’s AI chatbot Dating Assistant helps users customize searches so they “go beyond traditional traits like height or education, supporting unique prompts like ‘find me a Brooklyn girl who loves live music, cats, and museums,’” Kumar said.

Meta’s features arrive as its competitors race to deploy their own AI-powered tools. Hinge’s CEO told Fast Company he expects “mass swiping” to become “arcane” within three to five years, as people will increasingly turn to AI-driven searches where they input exactly what they want in a potential match—making endless swipe sessions obsolete.

The new search option offers more than what’s currently available on other dating apps, Kumar said. But other larger competitors have developed their own AI features. Tinder has an AI photo selector, Hinge has one that gives users an option to improve their responses to profile prompts with AI. Bumble has similar features, plus an AI-powered ice beaker feature to begin conversations.

The platform looks to capitalize on young adults: an age group that has seen a 10% increase in matches year-over-year, Kumar said. Kumar declined to comment on how many users are currently on the platform.

Both of Meta’s new AI-powered features are free, but some experts tell Fortune they still might not be worth it.

“My first thought is these new AI features may feel like too little, too late,” Amber Lee, a matchmaker and relationship expert, told Fortune. “Gen Z already associates Facebook as a platform for an older demographic, so this feels more like a PR stunt than something groundbreaking in the dating space.” 

Gen Z has been slower than millennials to adopt AI features in dating apps even though AI can polish profiles and suggest conversation starters, Lee said.

But, “this can potentially backfire as users are looking for authentic connections,” Lee admits. “Gen Z is likely to be turned off by the inauthentic nature of AI-polished profiles. These singles are seeking genuine connection, not one [run] by AI.”

To be sure, some dating experts see the features as a step in the right direction for AI-powered dating apps.

Jess Carpino, a former sociologist for Tinder and Bumble, told Fortune Meta’s new feature is an intuitive move.

“It’s trying to understand users’ needs in a more granular way,” Carpino said. “Custom search points to a shift from demographic-driven filters to a more robust system for zeroing in on personal preferences.”

Carpino also points to long-standing misconceptions about Gen Z’s “fatigue,” noting that many in the cohort are still in school or embedded in local communities—historically the channels where people have met romantic partners.

Still, skeptics question whether more personalization and less friction is really what Gen Z users crave. 

Avigail Lev, a psychologist and dating coach, told Fortune singles want tools that “help them bring relationships into real life more quickly:”features like local events, group meet-ups, or gentle nudges to take conversations offline.

“Swipe fatigue is real, but it doesn’t come from the physical act of swiping,” Lev said. “It comes from the endless, addictive loop of browsing options without meaningful follow-through.”

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